Driving Lesson Checklist for Parents
Every safe driving lesson starts before the engine turns on. Use this checklist to prepare the car, set up the cabin, and run a focused practice session.
- Key or key fob in hand
- Tires + underneath checked
- Path of travel scanned
- Windows clean and clear
- Cargo secured
- Area around vehicle clear
What should I check before a teen driving lesson?
Check three things before every session: the vehicle exterior, the cabin setup, and your communication plan. A walk-around catches tire problems and blocked sight lines. A consistent seat-and-mirror setup gives your teen the same reference points every time they drive.
Vehicle exterior
Walk-around for tires, fluids, sight lines
Cabin setup
Same seat, wheel, and mirrors every time
Communication plan
Shared vocabulary before the car moves
The Zutobi Parent Driving System covers the full pre-start routine and vehicle setup in its opening video lessons, so you and your teen follow the same steps each time.
Pre-drive checklist
Walk around the vehicle before your teen gets in. Once this becomes routine, it takes 10 to 30 seconds.
Exterior walk-around
- Have your key or key fob in hand.
- Check tire condition and look underneath for fluid leaks.
- Scan your intended path of travel and move any obstacles.
- Confirm all windows are clean and clear.
- Secure loose objects in the trunk or cargo area.
- Check the area around the vehicle before opening the door.
Interior check
- Enter the vehicle, close the doors, and lock them.
- Confirm the parking brake is engaged and the car is in Park.
- Secure your teen's phone out of reach.
- Adjust seat, steering wheel, and mirrors (covered in the next section).
- Buckle up and verify all passengers are belted.
Vehicle setup checklist
Get the seat, steering wheel, and mirrors right before every session. Even small changes in posture shift a new driver's sight lines and pedal reach.
Seat position
- Recline the seat back until the shoulder aligns with the B-pillar, the frame between front and back windows.
- Raise the seat for a clear view over the dashboard and windshield wipers.
- Slide forward until the knees stay slightly bent at full pedal press.
Steering wheel and the Wrist Flex Test
Unlock the steering column lever and adjust height and depth. The wheel should clear your teen's knees and leave the speedometer visible.
- When they drop to 9-and-3, elbows should be relaxed.
- Keep at least 10 inches between the chest and the center of the steering wheel for airbag safety.
The Wrist Flex Test confirms the distance is correct. Your teen extends both arms over the wheel so their wrists rest on the rim at 12 o'clock, without shoulders lifting off the seat back.
Mirrors
Set mirrors after the seat is locked in. Any seat change invalidates the mirror angles.
- Rear-view: frame the entire rear window without moving the head.
- Left side mirror: about 20% car, 80% road, with the back door handle visible in the bottom-right corner as a reference point.
- Right side mirror: same 20/80 split, with the front door handle pocket visible in the bottom-left corner.
Remind your teen that objects in the right mirror are closer than they appear. The Headlight Rule helps with lane changes: your teen should see both headlights of the car behind in the rear-view mirror before moving over.
During the lesson
Cover one new skill per session. Stacking too many topics overloads a new driver and slows progress.
Communication vocabulary
Agree on a set of commands before the car moves. Your teen should know what each word means and not be surprised when you say it.
- “Go”initiate movement in a named direction ("Go forward," "Go backward," "Go, no accelerator").
- “Easy”reduce speed by easing off the accelerator.
- “Squeeze”apply gentle brake pressure, or "Squeeze-Squeeze-Squeeze" to brake immediately.
- “Cover”rest the foot on the brake without pressing.
- “Stop”brake to a smooth halt at a named target ("Stop at the stop line").
- “Turn”alert to a direction change, naming the location before the action ("At the next stop sign, turn right").
When to intervene
Your teen should know in advance that you may grab the wheel, pull the handbrake, or turn off the engine. Frame this as part of the process, not a failure.
Post-drive checklist
End every session the same way. Consistency reinforces muscle memory for the shutdown and creates space for honest feedback.
Shutdown sequence
Instructor Jacqueline teaches a five-step shutdown: Stop, Park, Power off, Parking brake, Exit. Have your teen say the steps out loud until the sequence is automatic.
Debrief
Ask two questions after every drive:
- What went well today?
- What should we focus on next time?
Keep it short. One specific observation ("Your mirror checks were consistent today") is worth more than a list of five corrections. Write down the "next time" skill so you both start the following session with a clear goal.
Inside the Zutobi Parent Driving System
The PTTG covers every checklist item on this page across 35 video-led lessons, from the first walk-around to highway merging and night driving.
Pre-start + setup on video
Pre-start routine, vehicle orientation, and seat-mirror setup in the opening lessons.
Vocabulary + interventions
Communication vocabulary and intervention techniques before the first drive.
Skill-by-skill progression
So you know what to teach and in what order.
Progress tracking
Shows covered skills and remaining gaps.
Instructor Jacqueline leads every PTTG lesson on video, walking you through each skill and showing you what to coach.
Jacqueline
Certified Driving Instructor
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